Great Tips

This lesson is a collection of the often-overlooked details that can make or break your delivery — especially when it comes to how you start and finish your talk. These aren’t theoretical tips — they’re the kind of things you only notice after watching a lot of speakers... and making a few mistakes yourself.

They might seem small, but they have big impact.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

  • Your first 30 seconds matter most — many speakers start awkwardly because:
    • They haven’t taken a full breath
    • They’re nervous and rushing
    • They haven’t practiced their opening line
  • Practice your opening out loud — until it feels smooth, not stiff.
  • Avoid apologizing or disclaiming right away (no “I’m nervous” or “I didn’t have much time to prep”).
  • Study body language and delivery — Vanessa Van Edwards is a great resource.
  • Know how you’re going to close — don’t trail off or end with “That’s it.”
  • A strong finish can leave your audience energized, inspired, or reflective — but it has to be intentional.

📝 Workbook Prompt (pages 32-34):

  • Record your current talk’s intro and outro.
  • Watch them back and ask:
    • Did I start with clarity and confidence?
    • Did I close with intention?
  • Try 2–3 new opening lines and 2–3 closing statements — see what feels strongest.
  • Bonus: Watch 3 speaker clips (TEDx, YouTube, Instagram) and note how they open and close. What works? What doesn’t?