In this lesson, we’re calling out the little habits, oversights, and mindset traps that hold speakers back — from the awkward openings to the muddled messaging. We’re not here to shame anyone (you’re learning!) — we’re here to course-correct with clarity, intention, and a little humor.

Because once you know the red flags, you can stop doing the things that drain your power and start showing up like the speaker you already are.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• Mistake #1: Starting weak. Don’t open with a flat “Hi.” Start with impact — a story, a statement, or a powerful first line.
• Mistake #2: Announcing instead of teaching. Don’t tell them what you’re going to say — just start saying it. Deliver value right away.
• Mistake #3: Ending with “Any questions?” instead of a real close. Build to a final point and land it.
• Mistake #4: Using slides as a script. Slides should support your message — not be your message.
• Mistake #5: Over-quoting others. Be quotable yourself. Own your message. Don’t rely on borrowed wisdom.
• Mistake #6: Not watching the other speakers. If you’re on a shared stage, do your homework. Know what’s been said and make sure your voice lands.
• Mistake #7: Trying to please everyone. You’re not for everyone — and that’s your power.

📝 Workbook Prompt (pages 42-43):

Review your current or past talks:

• Did you start strong?
• Did you teach early?
• Did you land your closing with clarity?
• Were you quoting others more than yourself?
• What can you adjust next time to show up with more confidence and ownership?