On Stage It’s Not About You

This lesson dives into how to shift your speaking energy to your audience — because even when it’s about you, it’s really about what you can do for them. We’ll explore the Four E’s and how they help make your talk magnetic.

This is the mindset that creates real connection and keeps your audience coming back for more.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

  • The audience is the customer — you’re there to serve.
  • Use the Four E’s as your guide:
    • Educate: Teach with value and structure
    • Empower: Help them believe and take action
    • Engage: Use stories and relatable content
    • Entertain: Bring energy, humor, and human-ness
  • Speak from your lived experience, but always connect it back to their journey.
  • When people say “It felt like you were talking to me,” you’ve nailed it.

📝 Workbook Prompt (pages 30-31):

Evaluate your current content:

  • Is it empowering?
  • Is it educational?
  • Is it engaging?
  • Is it entertaining?
    Which “E” is your strongest? Which one could you bring in more of?